I started Saturday meeting the NYC Urban Sketchers at the Pulitzer Fountain which is in front of the Plaza Hotel and Central Park. We then moved to the entrance of the Central Park Zoo. We didn’t go in, but sat on some benches and sketched there. I left shortly after that to meet Jana Bouc, a fellow blogger who I only know from blogland. She was visiting NYC with her friend Micaela Marsden another artist and urban sketcher. We met by the Conservatory Water (which I erroneously told her was called Conservatory Pond.) Jana is as Northern Californian as I am a New Yorker. Tall, lithe and lovely we had a wonderful time.
After chatting, sketching, and wandering the park, Jana, Micaela and I got on the subway to go downtown. They wanted to walk over the Brooklyn Bridge. We got on the Lexington Ave. express. It was packed, but Micaela and I were lucky enough to get a seat. Jana was standing. As the doors closed we heard the familiar sound of someone asking for money. The man standing next to Jana gave the guy a dollar.
And then the unthinkable happened…Jana talked to the dollar-giving guy.
I was astounded. Jana asked him if he always gives money to people begging on the subway or does he evaluate the story first and then give. The man told Jana he gives out of love and because he always gives money he gets money back. Now he has a lot of money. Jana then asked what he did? His reply? He sold da ganja.
Yep, He sold marijuana.
Weed, Mary Jane, Waccy tobaccy. Chronic. Grass. He has a daughter that’s with her mother now, but he may try and get her back. He also asked Jana what month she was born in. She told him and he said that she was part of the tribe of Joshua. What tribe is that? Where is that in the bible? Mr. Chronic said it was in the LOST BOOKS of the Bible. Oh. We finally got to the Brooklyn Bridge stop where Micaela, Jana and I got off and Jana’s new best friend hoped that God blessed her and continued on.
I CANNOT tell you how amused I was and Jana, I hope you don’t mind me telling that story. I had a great time with you and Micaela and hope you visit again soon.
Here’s an article about that New York accent: “In a really good New York conversation more than one person is talking a lot of the time”http://www.pbs.org/speak/seatosea/americanvarieties/newyorkcity/
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September 30, 2013 at 12:01 am
Jim
I love that story! I empathize with jana. My cousin Nicola was astounded that Americans talk to one another… at least down here. In italy, he says, nobody talks to people one does not know… ! My friend Linda’s sister talks to everyone she sees, and Linda says “do you have to do that?” And her sister replies, “you should try it, you might find out you like it!”
And take me to Central Park next time!
September 30, 2013 at 2:48 am
Padmaja
The sketch is very spontaneous and lovely Carol! Enjoyed this little story. I don’t like beggars who are fit to earn, but give away in charity to those that truly deserve, so glad you could enjoy a day out with a friend from. Blog land , it is amazing how people can get connected to each other through their common passion.
September 30, 2013 at 5:56 am
cathgatland
How great to meet Jana Bouc! I think I’d be quite overwhelmed by New York talkers – though the two I met in Lisbon (Melanie Reim and Jason Das) were lovely and not at all scary! I’ve found urban sketching to be the best way to start conversations with strangers – making them much less strange 🙂 Love your sketch and story.
September 30, 2013 at 7:41 am
carrington brown
wonderful!!!
September 30, 2013 at 9:18 am
nyalice
Carol, I love the sketch/painting! And of course the story of meeting a blog-friend. The article you included is great. Many surveys have shown that New Yorkers are actually friendlier than most other “big-city” dwellers, but unless people know about our unique “tawking” style, they may not realize we are trying to be friendly!
September 30, 2013 at 11:14 am
Beth Parker
This is great! Love the statue and the story. I’m afraid this Okie would be a bit intimidated on a New York subway, but if I was going to do it, I’d be braver if I was with you. You’d keep me from getting myself into tourist trouble. I think my biggest fear would be getting lost. I have dreams about getting lost in big cities. 🙂
September 30, 2013 at 11:32 am
Patricia Oetken
Wow! What a story! It’s right out of a movie.
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September 30, 2013 at 2:17 pm
designsweet
How cool to meet a fellow blogger! Love the story – perhaps we’ll hear Jana’s side too!!
September 30, 2013 at 4:45 pm
Cathyann Burgess
Great read, Carol, only in New Yawk! Thanks for visiting my birdies and also for the link.
September 30, 2013 at 6:02 pm
Nuno
Love the composition! I enjoy the story.
October 1, 2013 at 10:50 am
lesliepaints
Cool Sketch, Carol! The three of you did a lot in one day! What fun!
October 1, 2013 at 9:47 pm
Jana Bouc
Hi Carol, You are the best story teller! I had so much fun with you and really appreciated your hospitality and your tour guide services!!! I enjoyed all the good laughs we had and loved seeing your wonderful sketches. I hope you will come out to San Francisco. Lots to see here too, and subways too!
October 2, 2013 at 10:59 am
violetski
Great sketch Carol ! Lovely story too 😃
October 3, 2013 at 1:53 pm
nicsearth
How fab that you met up with a fellow blogger – I hope it’s me one of these days!! I love that Jana talked with that guy and what a fantastic story! New York is brilliant! Great sketch as well.
October 4, 2013 at 7:43 am
Linda Halcomb
Incredible story! I also blog with jana and to hope to meet both of you some day. I am so impressed that you both took time to meet. What FUN!!! and I love the sketch.
October 5, 2013 at 10:30 pm
frankeber
Pretty cool story, Carol! I love how she just started chatting with the guy.. a very ‘California thing’…Hey, I am glad you actually did some painting/ sketching outside! Wasn’t it fun??? and yes, strength in numbers is a good thing!
October 14, 2013 at 7:11 pm
Cindy D.
Crazy story! I love this sketch painting. The colors are terrific.